It is no longer news or secret that some married men went after younger ladies for one reason or the other.
Some of them were even
proud of the act that they can no longer hide it or keep it as a secret to his wife. You will see them calling or bringing the side chick to their house even in the present of his wife.
This act has caused so many problems in the family, some times, the woman in that position keep asking questions where she has gone wrong to deserve the cheating from her husband.
In this write up, I am going to highlight 5 reasons why your husband go after young ladies.
Here are the reasons why married men never stop running after young ladies
1. Apathy :- complete lacking of interest, emotions, feelings or concern.
You may be thinking why I choose this very point first. It was because that is the only thing that can make one cheat. A man can only cheat when his wife is not giving him the full attention and care he needed. If the man sees any fresh young lady that can give her the care, he don't mind cheating you his wife.
2. Revenge:- any form of retaliatory action against an individual for some past harm
This is another important reason why married men run after young ladies. This can only happen went the husband suspect or thinks that his wife is having an affair for what ever reason.
Even if the married woman tried to explain whatever reason, the husband's real motivation is to seek for a revenge by going after other young ladies.
3. Lust:- a feeling of long desire, especially of a sexual nature
Lack of sexual appetite by the woman. When the woman does not have that sexual passion, when it was only the man that initiate sex in the marriage, it can make the husband to look for other young ladies that are ready to give sex to him anytime he want
This particular point can lead to divorce in marriage and it has caused many problem in the marriage.
4. Boredom or Loneliness:- the state of being bored.
Imagine a situation where the wife is living in a separate town due to the nature of her work. The husband is likely to cheat because he is tired of living the same life style; day to day, get up early, prepare breakfast, rush to the office, return home tired and there's no one to talk to or share his emotional feelings.
Your husband is not a wood abeg, he will definitely look for are young lady to keep him company till you come around.
5. Child:- an offsprings
There is nothing like someone's offsprings, the product of his spe. This is one of the main thing that makes the husband to cheat. If the woman cannot produce, the husband will definitely go after young ladies for offsprings.

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